“Does He Love Me?” 16 Obvious Signs He’s In Love With You

“Does he love me?” 10 obvious signs that exposes his true feelings for you

“Does he love me?” is a question a common rhetorical question ladies ask so often. There comes a time in every lady’s life where she begins to wonder if a man truly loves her. So you’ve been spending time together, texting and calling each other frequently and the signs are there that a romantic relationship is going on between you two, but you’re not quite sure if he truly loves you. 

Like every sane person, you want to be sure that the man with whom you are about to embark on such a romantic journey loves you wholeheartedly and is not just into you for some selfish reasons. 

Obviously, it is not the best idea to ask him, as this could hint desperation. Maybe you’re too scared as you don’t know what kind of answer he’s going to give. There is the possibility of getting a negative reply. What if he doesn’t love you and he says he does? You certainly cannot throw caution to the winds at this stage, that’s why you’re doing your homework.  Besides, asking such a hefty question could ruin the whole thing before it even begins.

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

You might not always understand the way he communicates verbally, but you can always rely on his actions – especially when it’s about his priorities.

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“Does He Love Me For Real?” These 23 Signs Say Yes

The following are signs that suggests he really loves you

1. He Prioritises You

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

2. He doesn’t hide things from you

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

3. He shows you off to his FAF

Sometimes guys don’t want to be seen at all with the woman they date. They’re shy or unsure whether the woman is “cool enough” to be introduced to his friends.

On top of that, it’s often a sign that he doesn’t believe the relationship will last long. So he’d rather avoid losing face in front of his friends. 

When it comes to men, almost everything is about status

And if he feels you’re lowering that status, he won’t introduce you to friends. Has he introduced you to his friends? Then he’s proud of you as the woman he’s dating.

He believes you’re made for each other and he’s probably in love with you. Does he tell you that he wants to introduce you to his friends? It’s perhaps the most important sign to tell if a guy is crazy about you.

4. He shows character signs of a man in love 

Much of our behavior as people happen very unconsciously. If a guy doesn’t see a future in you, he’ll unknowingly be a real jerk. But if a man sees a future with you, he’ll unconsciously behave in a way that shows this. 

Are you walking into a crowd? Then he’ll unconsciously hold your hand a little tighter. He doesn’t want to lose you. Literally and figuratively. 

Are you guys crossing a street together? Then he’ll put his hand on your back or shoulder to help you cross safely. He does it unconsciously

Does he believe you’re incapable of crossing the street on your own? Of course not. He’s doing it all unconsciously. This kind of behavior isn’t driven by lust, but from a man who loves you.

So his real motivation is revealed at times like this. Do you recognize these moments with the man you’re dating? Then take a calm breath and smile. You’ve picked a good one. 

5. He adjust schedule just to be with you

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

 

6. He’s more interested in your personality

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

 

7. He Treats You with Respect

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

 

8. He prefers to be with you over everything else

As I have stated before: 

Some men value the football game more than the women they date. This may work in the short term, but it would be impossible in the long run.

No woman wants to feel like she’s worth less than a football match where men with colored shirts chase after a ball. 

But once in a while, you’ll date a man who’s willing to put everything aside for you.

How to tell that he prefers you over all other things

Then he will:

Change plans with friends to be with you.

Skip his favorite activity to spend a little extra time with you.

Stay up late with you even though he has to get up early the next day.

These men see you as their number one person.

A guy doesn’t like to cancel hanging out with his friends for anything.

For men, respect is paramount. And every guy will try to avoid disrespecting his friends as much as possible. Take care of the man who’s willing to take that risk for you. He’s crazy about you.

9. He Makes Compromises with You

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

10. He Gets Affectionate

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

11. You’re part of his plans

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is

12. He appreciates your input

When a guy isn’t in love with you, he will do whatever HE wants. He doesn’t take into account what you want at all. His feelings, needs, and desires are simply more important than yours.

But “his” way isn’t always the best option to take. Sometimes you’ll come up with a better suggestion with a better solution.

Does he appreciate your input (and therefore you as a person)?

Then he’ll take your advice seriously and probably apply it.

He won’t always try to be right or do things his way no matter what. No.

He’ll listen thoughtfully to your solution to the problem.

Are you proposing a great idea? Then he will follow through with it and do it your way. If he’s in love with you, he’ll even be thrilled to follow the advice you came up with. At that moment, something else also happened…

He discovered that he is with a woman who’s even better than he initially thought. 

13. He always wants to see you happy

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

14. He’s Not Afraid of PDA

He shows you affection in public. A lot of guys are like robots in a relationship: They do everything unemotionally, and without any form of passion. Especially in public. It has to happen in a certain way. Acting “crazy,” only just for once, isn’t possible.

After all, he is afraid of losing respect in the eyes of the people around him. You can see this play out on a Saturday afternoon at the mall: You’ll see couples that are out shopping together, yet the men will look like zombies. 

These are guys who will show little or no affection or emotion in public. 

Instead of showing people how much fun he has with you, he prefers to show that you’re an ‘ordinary’ couple.

But honestly, who wants an ordinary relationship?

A man who’s in love with you and knows that he has a great relationship will want to show that to everyone in public. He likes to touch you and has no problem kissing you in public.

A man who’s in love with you is more than happy to do this. He likes to show other people that he is together with a great woman. 

15. He’s always willing to help you

There’s really no straight answer to the question “Does he love me?”, and there’s no way to read his mind to find out. Your best bet is to judge through his actions. Observing his behaviour can help you tell if a man loves you or is just playing you. 

16. He trusts you

If he trusts your completely, then it’s pretty obvious he is in love with you. Men find it difficult to trust women but feelings of love an affection can sway a man’s reasoning in unimaginable ways.

Conclusion

In general, this list is to help you get an idea. But it’s never completely waterproof. When you’re dealing with extremely shy, socially-awkward, playing hard-to-get, or autistic guys (no, that’s not a pleonasm), you can sometimes hardly find any of these factors.

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